Earlier I caught half of a Molyneux podcast (#5558) and he was talking about the small percentage of people that actually really apply themselves in therapy and the self-knowledge process. This has also born out, in my experience. One of the difference makers that I see for those who do make a lot of progress in this regard is people who have a supporting and activated spouse. Not only do you get double the growth with a significant other, the synergy can really kick off to new levels if the other person is a dedicated and devoted student.
I always urge people to work as hard on themselves as possible BEFORE they have children as even one child is a massive emotional and intellectual investment. For men, the time you have to spend going out and earning usually goes up, at least when you're young. For women, you are often low on sleep, pregnant again, or homemaking, which is no small chore and no easy task.
Another factor that works in people's favors is total commitment and focus. To get a job done right, you have to excavate your soul like your life depends on it. I continue to keep this ethic in my own life for a number of reasons. I have a highly competitive nature. I simply have a natural knack for the work. And I am often dissatisfied with my own performance once I've uncovered a new standard, which is happening on a nearly daily basis.
Getting to the golden shores of sanity is a ton of work, especially in the beginning. And getting there is not a guarantee of staying. People drift in and out. People make mistakes and then decide not to humble themselves and figure out why. The outside world of addiction, status, and evil against children is constantly putting pressure on people to develop addictions, worries, and conflicts with other sane people.
Having a look at one of Miles Mathis' "favorite films" and the social commentary relevant at the time.
I thought I'd share a little bit of my thinking behind this tweet.
First, it's topical because I think JD Vance said something to the effect of "illegals shouldn't be served by US ER staff" though I didn't verify because I don't really care for Vance and don't want to absorb his words. But his words ARE getting a lot of play right now.
Why I bring in the Hippocratic Oath is not because I misunderstand it! I indeed checked it before I even wrote the tweet since I appreciate things popping into my head and then refreshing my "schema" on them. I brought it in for two reasons:
A) It needs updating since a doctor is sworn to do no harm but his very livelihood is reduced by helping a person who is a drain on the system he is forced to participate in by the State
B) We need to rewrite terms in order to fit OUR culture - therefore I use words in my own specific way. Just enough in the direction of the general drift so that people catch on with it but also within the purview of my values ...
I haven't posted anything to it, yet. Apparently I've had it a number of months. I used YouTube on a browser that had my old Gmail logged in to it and it made me "create a YouTube" which apparently means having a channel. I think this is a good sign that I won't get banned.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5vdMYq0HYzri0hmYMEHPDw