People want you agitated so you won't own your own emotional reactions to things. It is in this way that they can step in and exploit you. You may think it's harmless and innocent what and who you give your attention to and more importantly, your sanction, but you risk being dragged into something that is unphilosophical and does not serve you at your deeper levels.
Having a look at one of Miles Mathis' "favorite films" and the social commentary relevant at the time.
After I published this article, it dawned on me that popular Internet parlance has a phrase like this in people's minds thinking of Boomers telling the younger generations to lift themselves up by the bootstraps - which is obviously not the point of the article!
https://franssen.substack.com/p/complaining-is-a-lack-of-responsibility
Nice to be in a rhythm with these.
https://franssen.substack.com/p/arguments-over-opinions